Saying Goodbye provides comprehensive information, advice, support and much more to anyone who has suffered the loss of a baby, at any stage of pregnancy, at birth or in infancy

Firstly, know that you are not alone. Unfortunately hundreds of people across the UK go through baby loss each day, and for each person, we are here to help, to explain, to try and make sense of what for many can be a deeply traumatic time.

Secondly, please make use of the information on the site, contact the team for further support if you or a loved one needs it, and know that we are here for you.

Get Support    Download the Saying Goodbye Support Leaflet (PDF)

Book Cover of Saying Goodbye by Zoe Clark-Coates

The Book: Saying Goodbye by Zoe Clark-Coates, now available.

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The Baby Loss Guide Book

The Baby Loss Guide Book by Zoe Clark-Coates is now available.

Practical and compassionate support with a day-by-day resource to navigate the path of grief

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Our Latest Video – One More


Listen to Zoe on the Griefcast Podcast

Zoe Clark-Coates on the Griefcast Podcast.

Zoe has been interviewed on the Griefcast by Cariad Lloyd.

The Grieftcast was the Podcast of the Year at the 2018 British Podcast Awards.

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About Saying Goodbye

About Saying Goodbye

Since its launch Saying Goodbye has been changing the face of baby loss support across the UK and globally. As the primary division of the Mariposa Trust, Saying Goodbye has embraced the use of social media, befrienders, online portals, therapy and more, providing relevant advice, information and support to tens of thousands of people each week.

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About The Founders

About the Founders

Zoe and Andy Clark-Coates founded the charity the Mariposa Trust, of which Saying Goodbye is the primary division. As a couple they had personally gone through the experience of baby loss five times, and as such had seen what was missing in the support sector, and wanted to launch an organisation to meet this need.

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Fundraising and Donations

The charity relies fully on the generosity of individuals, couples, families, companies and foundations to carry on its vital work. If you are able to donate to the work of the charity, we would greatly appreciate your support, and if you are able to get involved in fundraising, we would love to have you join the fundraising team.

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