About the Saying Goodbye Services

Inside Bristol Cathedral at a Saying Goodbye Service

The Saying Goodbye Services are the first international set of remembrance services for people who have lost a child at any stage of pregnancy, at birth or in infancy, whether the loss be recent or 80 years ago.

Since 2012, over 70 services have been held across the UK, North America and France, allowing many thousands of people to remember the babies they have lost. The services are completely free to attend, do not need tickets or any advance bookings, and are open to anyone of any faith or no faith. They have been strategically located, to make them accessible to as many people as possible, and services take place within 60-90 minutes of the majority of the UK population.

The Mariposa Trust is a non-religious charity, but has seen the importance of the Saying Goodbye services taking place in magnificent Cathedrals, Minsters and Abbey’s. These venues are used for the most important events of state, from coronations and weddings to important civic events, and services of remembrance should take no less a place within society. The services follow an Anglican format, and include secular music, poetry, acts of remembrance and other elements.


Who Can Attend the Services?

The services are for women and men who have suffered the loss of a baby, as well as for their children and their extended family and friends, whether the loss be recent or historic. Additionally we welcome anyone who is grieving the fact that they have never had children.

It should also be noted that all are welcome regardless of the type or circumstances of loss they have experienced. Whether you have been through early or late miscarriage, missed miscarriage, an ectopic or molar pregnancy, stillbirth, neonatal or early infant loss or any other type of baby or child loss, all are welcome.

If you need to say goodbye to a baby or to grieve, or you want to come along with a friend who needs to say goodbye, you are welcome at any of the services.

Why Should I Attend the Services?

Loss at any stage is traumatic. Early loss is often not acknowledged or discussed, with commemorative services seldom taking place. Services for babies who are stillborn or lost in early years, are usually conducted while parents are in a fog of grief and pain.

The services will give you the opportunity to stand with other people ‘who know’ the pain of losing a child, and offer you a time to publicly acknowledge and remember children who have been lost.

For lots of questions and answers about the services, please see the ‘Attending a Saying Goodbye Service‘ page

Saying Goodbye Service Dates & Locations

Below are the dates of upcoming Saying Goodbye (SG) Services. If you would like to know more about any of the services, please Contact Us.

Date Time Event Event Poster (PDF)
15/10/2017 6:00pm SG Service at Chelmsford Cathedral, Chelmsford
30/09/2017 11:00am SG Service at Glasgow Cathedral, Glasgow
27/09/2017 7:30pm SG Service at St Andrew's Cathedral, Inverness
24/09/2017 3:00pm SG Service at Sunderland Minster, Sunderland
10/09/2017 4:00pm SG Service at Bradford Cathedral, Bradford
15/07/2017 3:00pm SG Service at Derby Cathedral, Derby
08/07/2017 2:30pm SG Service at Manchester Cathedral, Manchester
28/05/2017 3:30pm SG Service at St Anne's Cathedral, Belfast
20/05/2017 7:30pm SG Service at Christ Church Cathedral, Oxford
13/05/2017 12:00am SG Service at Winchester Cathedral, Winchester
29/04/2017 12:00am SG Service at St Andrew's Minster, Plymouth
27/11/2016 3:30pm SG Service at Westminster Central Hall, London Event Poster
20/11/2016 7:00pm SG Service at Malmesbury Abbey, Wiltshire Event Poster
18/11/2016 7:15pm SG Service at Llandaff Cathedral, Cardiff Event Poster
13/11/2016 6:30pm SG Service at Ely Cathedral, Cambridgeshire Event Poster
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The services have limited space. Seats will be allocated on a first come, first seated basis.

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